Men does ever turn you off?

Okay so I like a little bit of a as much as the next man but sometimes I start watching a film or clip on the net ready for a nice w*nk and what I see just sickens and depresses me so much I totally lose my hard-on. Not that the is extreme really no or bodily functions but it's all just so cold and inhumane. All you get are a couple of shaved, hard bodies hardly touching, f*cking in these impossible poses just so the camera can see the action. The women all moan and wail in a totally uny way. It's just so off putting. I mean I do like but so much of it is just awful and uny, where is the humour and the tenderness am I the only guy that feels this way?